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Meaningful Parenting- Go beyond 'Good Job'

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I am an advocate of appreciation. We were brought up in different times. Parents were more critical and appreciation of any kind was hard to come by. Even if they did it had a hyperlink attached- “ हाँ ठीक है , अब ज्यादा उड़ने की जरूरत नहीं . आगे भी अच्छा करते रहना है ”. (It’s OK...you don't need to fly so much. You have to keep doing well.') The tone in which this dialogue was delivered always use to put us in confusion- ' ये क्या था ? "What was that?" The inflated self-esteem went whoosh as we were thrown back to the ground. It's different now. We as parents indulge in appreciation. A small or big act of achievement or even just the effort. We laud our children with ‘GOOD JOB’ as often as possible. Yes! The hypothesis has changed today. The more you appreciate the better it is. All kinds of research going around to prove how appreciation is linked to better grades, better behavior and better performance academically and in ot