I am so sorry, I am late!
|"Sorry to keep you all waiting. I was resting in my cave. How come you guys are on time?"|
I got invited for a birthday party. The time read 7:00pm, 10th November 2017.
Notorious for being on time, I thought to caution them well in advance…. you see just in case they are in the shower when I arrive. ;)
“Thank you for the invitation. Dhruv is turning 5 and we would love to be part of the celebrations. I thought it would be good to let you know that I will come at 7:00pm as stated in the invitation card. May be 5 minutes before. Kindly put that Tandoori chicken (which would be marinating) in the oven. Move your butt and dress your child. It is not great to see the birthday boy running around naked, swinging his underwear. Try to set up the place and yourself, because I am going to be on time. Do not for a moment think that I am anywhere close to Indiangiri or the Indian standard time. You see, if you want me to come at 7:30 pm, please write it so. I cannot assume by some magical power that you wrote 7:00 pm and meant 8. See you guys soon. I love tandoori chicken and god bless Dhruv.”
Coming to the point, I quite find it funny when people boast about a bad habit in a way which shows that it is the best habit to have in this big wide world. What I am talking about?
“We are Indians, you know…we will arrive at our ISD. Hahhahaha.” Heard this before? Uttered it yourself?
Stop that grin, that laugh, that casualness. Tear that label (ISD)that you wear with so much pride and boast around. Catch hold of that careless, apathetic, lazy, unconcerned, irresponsible soul and puree him/her, who created the equation- Appointment at 9:00 am+ 30 minutes or more to Indiangiri= INDIAN STANDARD TIME.
Being late due to Indiangiri is unprofessional, insensitive, and uncaring. It just shows two things
· You do not know how to manage your time.
· You do not care about other’s time.
Either ways, you do not deserve a crown or an applause for being so.
If you cannot make to a meeting, official or friendly, say a NO.
If you choose to meet someone, official or friendly, learn to be on time.
If you are 100% sure about the mind and heart of the host, your friend, your colleague or your secret lover, best ditch the plan, don’t inform and don’t turn up. They won’t mind. :)
“No, I will not come by 8. Expect me by 7:05."
Being late is not INDIAN. It’s INDIANGIRI for sure and trust, while INDIANGIRI has a YO feel to it, it serves no good purpose.
I find myself on many occasion, dressed up to impress, food ready to be served, living room touched and decorated, my child well instructed for good behavior, husband instructed to smile more often and guess what ………………………………we are WAITINGGGGGGGG. What makes a 7:00 pm become 7:30pm? To think that 30 minutes make no difference in life of the host or the guest is to undermine the value of time itself. For a very casual meeting between two chaddi buddies, who intend to meet and go back in time, I have nothing to say. This piece is for many of us visiting SOCAL Indian Women’s meet, Dr. Tina's Montessori Fun Time School, Pretty Chadda's threading appointment, Ruchi Ahuja's dance classes and the like.
Office goers have their own industry standards and workplace culture to guide them. To the rest of us, WE ARE NOT IN THE BUSINESS OF KILLING TIME EITHER.
What is fun in being late and saying, “I am sooo sorry, I got late.” Your sorry is not genuine, neither do you intend to be on time for the next visit. Consistently done, it brands you as unreliable and indolent. By any chance if you are trying to prove that PUNCTUALITY IS A VIRTUE OF THE BORED AND UNOCCUPIED, that YOU ARE EMPLOYED and OVERLOADED with world problems for which only you have the solution, then let me pass on a piece of somebody else’s mind.
You have enough time for anything in the world, so long it ranks high enough among your priorities.